Do u think i can actually be pregnant?

Well im 16 dpo i tested at 14 dpo and they were neg but that was in the afternoon, i keep getting cramps in my lower abdomen and twinges in the pelvic area,im tired all the time, im having alot of white lotion CM, i pee every hour,i get lower backaches, my have gotten bigger, they feel swollen and they have been tingling, im starting to c veins on my , im now getting bloated. Usually my PMS starts a week b4 AF, i usually get less appetite, bloating and headaches. I have been real emotional this week to...do u think my AF is coming or im preg? Im not even stressing either, im hopin my AF was gonna come, but all i did was spot pink discharge at 10dpo. what do yall think?